OK, things a little clearer now,My vehicle went in as planned for the auto lights, but no need to report on that. More importantly, Start/Stop.
All the info that I found on ETIS re: Modules installed, mean just that, that my vehicle has those certain modules installed. When you click on any one of them and there are sub details, that tells you what to do if you install a new module, what service actions to take and the software version on the car. It will also show if there is an up-date as well. I sat down with the mechanic and service manager and he explained that if software is available for anything whatsoever then it would tell you that and would install it. My dealer, & I am sure they are all the same told me that nothing gets missed as every time it comes in it gets plugged into the computer and gets checked for up-dates etc.
Also, he showed me thier ETIS which is more complexed which allows them to search systematically for all problems that are reported for any Ford vehicle, and if there are any solutions or up-dates or recalls associated with those problems.
As for Dunstons Start/Stop software upgrade, not to put a downer on it, but my dealer tells me that as far as he is concerned , after checking my vehicle there is no such up-grade for the Start/Stop but Ford may have done a specific one to try on his car and if success is reported, then it will probably be issued for them all. I was happy and understood what he told me, and he has now reported my Stop/Start officially to Ford.