So a little update on this...
Fitted the towbar within 1.5 hours and fits 100% mechanically.
The electrics however are a little different between model year.( came off 2014 and ours is 2017)
The module that came with the kit is a cv1j-19h378-aa and 2017 must be cv1j-19h378-ab.
and I'm missing 2 cable extensions.
Ordered the new wiringkit from Ford and everything should be sorted out.
I'll post the wiring diagram when delivered incase someone needs in the future.